my isp's tryin to rip me off, i need some serious help!!!

[Ardavan Shafiee]

this is the mails which was sent and received by me...

caraudiodesign wrote:
> hi ****
> i need some information in order to remotely connect/manage our website's
> database, so can you inform me of the database's name, the port to connect
> to it, the user name and password for the database. can you also let me know
> if the server provides SSH bridge connections.
> thanks very much
> regards
> ***********

Hi ******,

The MySQL server is not remotely accessible for two reasons.

Firstly for security, and secondly because the software that accesses
the database (the admin section mainly) ensures certain relationships
within the database, it would be very easy to 'corrupt' these
relationships be editing the database by hand.

Let me know what changes you wanted making and I will be able to advise
further, possibly even update the admin tool.

Regards,
************


i wanted to do some changes my self. can this be possible? no remote access to a database, so how can you change the database when its on a dedicated server??!!! i need some serious advise here, please help!!!