Mysql Administrator issue...

[nanc pat]

My problem is:
1] While trying to connect in MYSQL Control Center, I get error:
=== Error 2003: Can't connect to Mysql server on 'THESERVER' (10061) ===
[host name is fine, port no is also fine, then where I am doing wrong.... ???]

2] I can connect to Mysql Administrator, BUT..
1) Startup Variables are disabled [I can't alter them...]
2) Clicking SERVICE CONTROL page stops the service and then I could not restart the service again. [seems goophy to me... why its like that ???]
3) While surfing in Mysql Administrator, after a while I get error message:
=== Mysql Error Number 1226
User 'root' has exceeded the 'max_questions' resource (Current value 100)===
[I set max question value to default (0) or any number, it dosent make difference, and I can't work on administrator unless I re-login]

3] I have created a .sql file containing all tables & relationships I want. How can I load
that file in Mysql database. [How can I call/import that .sql file to create tables in Mysql database ??]


I am stuck in above little mess, would you please help me out from above problem ?

thank you very much,

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