Re: I must be tarded.. please help
Something like:
Dim myUpdateCommand as New MySqlCommand()
Dim sqlUpdate as String
sqlUpdate = "UPDATE company SET .... "
myUpdateCommand.Connection = conn
myUpdateCommand.CommandText = sqlUpdate
myAdapter.UpdateCommand = myUpdateCommand
Then, after you modify your DataSet, when you call the .Update method, the DataAdapter will use this command object to process the update.
Use similar code for your Insert and Delete command objects, if necessary.
The DataAdapter merely processes the different command objects. You need to build the objects for it to process.
Alternatively, you can look into using the CommandBuilder. I've never used it, but it's supposed to automatically build the Insert, Update and Delete command objects based on the SelectCommand you've defined.